ARE YOU TRAPPED “IN THE CLOSET”? Perhaps stepping out occasionally to experience that part of yourself that you keep hidden?


I’d like to gain a deeper insight into the experience of those who live within the confines of a closeted life.

This insight will inform and perhaps achieve anonymous inclusion in my book about living unlimited by labels.


Do you feel stuck? Is your life different to how you feel it could or should be.

If so – Tell me about it.

Tell me about the “choices” you made when younger to conceal your sexuality or gender identity, if that’s what you feel you did and perhaps still do.

What were/are the personal, social, religious reasons for this decision and what has your life been like as a result?

Do you wish that things might have been different and do you ever imagine how life could have been? I’d like to hear about your feelings then and now.

Your answers will be received and responded to with absolute sensitivity and in complete confidence.

Please email responses to:



About neverblendin

David Watters, a graduate of Napier University, Edinburgh, Trinity College of Music, London and the Institute of Education, University of London, has worked internationally within education and Educational Management for more than 20 years. He has taught extensively within many socially and culturally diverse settings; most recently as a Head of Performing Arts within Further Education. He is a personal and professional development associate with The Pacific Institute (, personal coach, freelance writer and founding member of NBI Associates. He is a writer on social equality issues, is a key player in the Equal Love Campaign UK and author of the forthcoming book, NEVER BLEND IN which features key voices from the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender community and which aims to inspire and encourage those who may lack self-esteem or who question their validity. David is currently promoting a youtube campaign"Give 'em Hope"and is asking individuals, couples and groups to make and share videos telling about the benefits of living with personal authenticity. He has shared a platform with Stuart Milk and Peter Tatchell and is a supporter of 17-24-30, The Trevor Project, Schools Out, The Terrence Higgins Trust, The Albert Kennedy Trust and numerous others. His background in arts and education, combined with a solid understanding of Cognitive Behavioural Strategies, and his passion for Equality Advocacy drive every aspect of his work as a personal development facilitator, motivational speaker and writer. View all posts by neverblendin

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