Darn right, I’m anxious – John Selig

As a gay man living in Texas, whose marriage to my husband (an American citizen born in Mexico) that took place in Canada in April 2003 and was finally legal here in Texas just over a year ago, I too am feeling lots of anxiety.

My father and his parents fled Nazi Germany in 1935 when my dad was 10 years old because of the kind of hate spewed by Donald Trump and espoused by his supporters.
On my dad’s 18th birthday he enlisted in the U.S. Army Air Corps and became a tail-gunner on a B-17. His plane went down on its first mission and he spent the last year of WWII as a Jew in a German POW camp. Dad is no longer alive but I believe that one of the reasons he fought was to make sure that his future son and all Americans wouldn’t have to face the same kind of hate that he did.

I am astounded that so many people are voting for Donald Trump who behaves in a fashion that most people were taught as young kids is totally unacceptable. Trump is totally unqualified for the job and his mental condition makes him extremely dangerous.

Essentially all major newspapers throughout the country including newspapers that are strongly conservative, some of which haven’t endorsed a Democrat for President in over 50, 75, 100, even 127 years, have endorsed Hillary Clinton. High-ranking Republican politicians and cabinet secretaries from recent Republican administrations have said that they cannot vote for Trump. The only foreign leaders who have said they want Trump elected are from Russia and North Korea and 45 foreign leaders do not want Trump to become president.

Trump’s treatment of women, minorities, Muslims, Jews, LGBT people and many others is inexcusable. Those who are not one of the groups Trump has targeted, should still be worried, as they may be next. Donald Trump’s vendettas against anybody that disagrees with him means that he will be unable to govern as presidents must be able to compromise. Trump will be unable to work with foreign leaders in countries that disagree with him, even those who are close allies.

Hate groups all over the U.S have endorsed trump. This alone is reason not to vote for him. Trump supporters, do you really want to vote for a candidate endorsed by the Nazis and KKK?
Darn right, I am anxious!



John R. Selig grew up in Huntington, NY and with the exception of a 15-month stint in Scottsdale, Arizona in the mid 90s he has lived in Dallas, Texas since 1985. Selig and his husband, Rodolfo, married at a wedding ceremony attended by family and friends in Toronto, Canada on April 17, 2004.

Selig is a gay parent whose son, Nathaniel, continued to live with him after Selig and his former wife divorced in 1991 (they co-parented their son through his teen years). Nathaniel and his wife, Doris, made Selig and Rodolfo proud doting grandfathers to their grandson, Cameron, in 2008.

Selig works in the marketing and advertising field and is a gay activist, free-lance writer, blogger and photographer. In July 2007 Selig launched his “John Selig Outspoken” Podcast. The podcast features conversations with LGBT role models, opinion leaders and writers as well as Selig’s commentaries. Selig’s podcast is available on iTunes and can also be accessed directly at www.johnseligoutspoken.com. In January 2015 Selig added a blog to his website. Selig has also occasionally appeared on The Huffington Post’s “HuffPost Live” webcast both as part of panels and as a sole interviewee.

Selig is in the process of writing a book that will feature comments about his life and worldview called “John Selig Outspoken: The Book.” He is reading some content for the book on select episodes of his John Selig Outspoken podcast on select episodes.

Selig contributed profiles and photographs and was a Consulting Editor to the award-winning book “Uncommon Heroes” and was a contributor to the book “Telling Tales Out of School,” which was edited by Kevin Jennings, who was Executive Director of GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network) at the time the book, was published.

Selig has written and photographed feature articles for A&U magazine and has written Op-Ed Pieces for the Dallas Morning News, Arizona Republic and Mesa Tribune and articles for the Dallas Voice and Texas Triangle. He has written book reviews for ForeWord Magazine and the Lambda Book Report. Selig has been written about in the Dallas Voice, Texas Triangle, Long Islander, Dallas Morning News, New York Times, Newsday and U.S. News & World Report and has appeared on the Donahue and Rolonda television shows and numerous radio shows around the country as well as a variety of LGBTand mainstream podcasts. For Valentine’s Day in 2005 Selig’s commentary on his marriage to Rodolfo aired on NPR’s “All Things Considered” and “Morning Edition.” Selig was a regular on “Conversations with Rick Vanderslice,” an Internet radio show on Rational Broadcasting. His photographs have appeared in newspapers, magazines, books and CD liners and also on web sites.

Selig was a member of the StopDrLaura.com National Steering Committee and received the Dallas Gay and Lesbian Alliance (DGLA) President’s Award in 2001 for his activism in organizing gay community response against the airing of the “Dr. Laura” TV show. During the summer of 2000 Selig co-authored a policy recommendation for the Al Gore for President campaign that was presented to the Vice President’s staff during a campaign visit in Dallas.

In February 2015 Selig was the keynote speaker at the 2015 Out for Health Summit where he spoke offering suggestions on how medical professionals could be LGBT advocates/activists in their own lives and practices.

Multiculturalism has played a strong role in Selig’s life. He was active in AFS International/Intercultural Programs for fifteen years, where he held various leadership positions (including Chapter President and Area Representative) and hosted students from Switzerland and Belgium and an English teacher from the People’s Republic of China. During the first half of his senior year of college Selig studied British broadcasting at the Polytechnic of Central London in England and during the second half of his senior year he studied the European Union at the College of Europe in Bruges, Belgium.

Selig has an MBA in Marketing from the University of Chicago Booth School of Business and has a BA in Economics from the Binghamton University (formerly known as the State University of New York at Binghamton).

Selig’s website www.johnselig.com contains his blog and a selection of his commentaries and photography, as well as recommended links and access to his “John Selig Outspoken” podcast.







About neverblendin

David Watters, a graduate of Napier University, Edinburgh, Trinity College of Music, London and the Institute of Education, University of London, has worked internationally within education and Educational Management for more than 20 years. He has taught extensively within many socially and culturally diverse settings; most recently as a Head of Performing Arts within Further Education. He is a personal and professional development associate with The Pacific Institute (www.pacificinstitute.co.uk), personal coach, freelance writer and founding member of NBI Associates. He is a writer on social equality issues, is a key player in the Equal Love Campaign UK and author of the forthcoming book, NEVER BLEND IN which features key voices from the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender community and which aims to inspire and encourage those who may lack self-esteem or who question their validity. David is currently promoting a youtube campaign"Give 'em Hope"and is asking individuals, couples and groups to make and share videos telling about the benefits of living with personal authenticity. He has shared a platform with Stuart Milk and Peter Tatchell and is a supporter of 17-24-30, The Trevor Project, Schools Out, The Terrence Higgins Trust, The Albert Kennedy Trust and numerous others. His background in arts and education, combined with a solid understanding of Cognitive Behavioural Strategies, and his passion for Equality Advocacy drive every aspect of his work as a personal development facilitator, motivational speaker and writer. View all posts by neverblendin

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